Honest Q&A w/ My Boyfriend: Weight Gain, “All In”, Binge Eating, My Haters ft. Jeff Nippard
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▹What was your initial reaction to when I told you I was going "all in"? 1:00
▹Did you think going "all in" was going to fix my extreme hunger? 1:38
▹Can you share your experience with going "all in"? 2:57
▹How much weight would you gain going "all in"? 5:32
▹What happened to your appetite after gaining weight? 6:28
▹How long did it take for your hunger levels to go down? 8:04
▹Are binge episodes common in bodybuilding? 11:42
▹What are your eating behaviors like now? 11:42
▹Most reception has been positive, but my biggest critics are ALL men, why do you think that is? 15:52
▹Based on being around me, do you think going "all in" worked or is working for me? 19:09
▹What do you think about my weight gain? 20:58
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This was such a fun video to make so I hope you enjoy it! Stay tuned for my next video which will be a big 4 month recap! Love you guys so much! 💋😘 **Timestamps** ▹What was your initial reaction to when I told you I was going "all in"? 1:00 ▹Did you think going "all in" was going to fix my extreme hunger? 1:38 ▹Can you share your experience with going "all in"? 2:57 ▹How much weight would you gain going "all in"? 5:32 ▹What happened to your appetite after gaining weight? 6:28 ▹How long did it take for your hunger levels to go down? 8:04 ▹Are binge episodes common in bodybuilding? 11:42 ▹What are your eating behaviors like now? 11:42 ▹Most reception has been positive, but my biggest critics are ALL men, why do you think that is? 15:52 ▹Based on being around me, do you think going "all in" worked or is working for me? 19:09 ▹What do you think about my weight gain? 20:58
Stephanie Buttermore I’m learning so much!
I love you guys! There absolutely is a double standard between men and women making mistakes in the gym. Women get ripped to shreds for improper form. I was criticized by a guy today for my angle while performing a cable kickback. He tried to show me how to do it "properly" which would have hurt my lower back. HE had no idea what he was talking about.... Thank you for touching on that point. (I of course do not mean all men think this way.......)
Stephanie Buttermore I don’t think what you are doing is wrong. But why so much sugar 🤯
She was way too skinny before she needed to gain weight.
Aww I like his comment of liking you even more now 😉😍 girl he likes you thicker! ❤ 🍑 yall are cute tho! I'm new to your channel and actually I came across one of your past upper body workouts and I wasn't going to subscribe bcuz to me you were just another "skinny woman trainer" and theres so many of those women and channels already. I'm glad I seen one of your recent vids of you going "all in" and you seem so much happier and I dont even know you personally. Theres hardly ever average or "thicker" females that are relatable plus you and your bf are very educated in science when it comes to the body/workouts/nutrition, etc...anyways I'm a fan now 😁🤗❤
Happy belated birthday Jeff
I love this couple so much. They've helped me learn tons by explaining science-based facts and from sharing their own experiences. It's kind of shocking to me how relatable some of those are, which again for me, are really helpful. Stay safe and cute, you two! 💖
13:51 so relatable
Refreshing to hear a man describe what I’ve done my entire life: diet binge repent repeat. I hope you guys realize how important your honesty is to not only young people but to those who have spent their whole lives berating themselves for not having the “self control” fitness industry people seemingly have. It’s so awesome to realize we are all human and all have the same survival instincts. You guys are an inspiration 😘
Mansplaining in the fitness industry is the worst!!!!! You look beautiful. And he’s a dope boyfriend.
Is it his own inside joke or is it unintentional that Jeff always says "wamen"
Has anyone done ALL IN?? I want to do it, just a bit scared. Is there like a group forum of where people are doing this?
Closest thing I've find is the subreddit "fuck eating disorders" people recovering from EDs are often encouraged to listen to their extreme hunger and some of them discuss it on that subreddit
HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎂🎈🎉🎁🎊 JEFF
Your a perfect couple so cute 😍get married and have kids lol that’ll be so cute
Great video , I just always wondered do you have extensions in ?
Such a wholesome video!! “There is no cap!” You guys are awesome x
I so enjoyed hearing a male perspective of binge eating and dieting. You guys are the best!
In Norwegian we have a saying in regards to curves/size, that roughly translates to "More to grab/hug, more to love"
I was watching this thinking why your boyfriend was looking so familar. Is he from Grand Falls in Newfoundland. Pretty sure his dad cleaned (prior to retirement) my teeth and use to see him at the gym
He is so sweet:) and you are super positive accomplished and pretty! You deserve each other!
Great video. Thanks for the honest and open discussion.
Imagine if she had an uneducated partner who didn't have this experience. This process would've been excruciating
Not gonna lie, first time I saw him I felt he was a bit ditsy and slow, but I didn't wanna judge immediately because I didn't see enough of him to know, but after seeing this wow my mind is changed, and it also reminded me to not pre assume who a person is, but love the relationship they have. Filled with honesty, support and love. Love you Stephanie and jeff
The inflection and how you two say, uh huh or uh hm is the same. I'm new to the channel, but I noticed it in Jeff's video when he tried one of you All In eating days and you were behind the camera and now here. I can't stop hearing it now.
There MIGHT be a double standard? MIGHT be? Come on Jeff, there DEF IS, haha but you cute and you tell Steph how much you love her new thiccness, so you get a pass. 😝
I mean, nobody wants to admit they ate nine cans of ravioli, but I did.
I think she looks even more beautiful now and I would say she looks happier.
I cannot tell you how much this video opened my eyes. I have binge eating disorder with some purging and it makes me hopeful that I can overcome. Thank you Stephanie and Jeff!
Really appreciate the honesty and vulnerability from Jeff in this video.
Watching the quality of this relationship is so heartwarming
a lot of men will "purge" by over-exercising, which often looks normal among fitness circles which often get pretty disordered in their own right. Anorexic women do this too - eat something youre "not supposed to" = "3 hours on the treadmill". Because of this, as well as the fact that disordered eating is SUCH a taboo topic among men, fitness or not, a lot of ED guys just... get overlooked as regular fit guys.
How anyone could hate on you is beyond me. You're very kind, smart, very considerate and to be honest, very real and just raw. I don't understand haters. I support you and think you look better than EVER now Stephanie. You are just stunning love. Keep up the great work and just ignore the haters. People try to make money off your journey and if they have to try and shine you in a bad light to make their vlog seem worth while to watch, so be it. That makes them pretty rotten people. I'll never watch their videos though.
Booty and curvy healthy strong gainzzzzzzzzz ladiesssss your partner LOVES it. 💯
Awesome video!!!
Happy Birthday!
What a sweet man you've chosen and what a beautiful relationship you guys cultivated. Lovely couple
This was one of the most insightful, honest and encouraging health/fitness videos I’ve ever seen on HUfast. Thank you so much for doing what you do, Stephanie 🥰. Sharing your guys’ internal struggle with intense hunger, body image and critics made me truly realize that my relationship with food and my body is forever a work in progress. There is no ultimate goal. And ironically enough, that brings me peace. Knowing that perfection isn’t attainable allows me to accept my mistakes and enjoy the process. I’m confident all the work you put into yourself and your journey will always pay off in some way though!
There might be a double standard? No. There IS a double standard! Your boyfriend is an amazing man, and for some reason I knew he would say that he prefers your body now 😉
Most men are very forgiving toward female bodies gaining more weight. And many guys love thicc girls lol. Obviously women should do things for themselves, but I do notice many ladies are their own worse critics.
Men are scared of women that are done hating themselves and actively doing something to our bodies that isn’t what they would want. Keep making men feel uncomfortable
Body builders' extreme hunger... First world problems!
He's such a great, intelligent man.
Ah the “unsolicited help” from men...it’s the worst lol😫😫 men like to feel useful but...Bro get off my back unless I go up to you and ASK you for assistance! Lol
FIT👏 COUPLE👏 GOALS👏 PERIODT 💅🏾
Your inspirational, you rock ✌️😀
He is so thoughtful, supportive, and just an all-around A+++ human being! Couple goals for sure!!!
If you like it then you SHOULD put a 💍on it !
I can really relate to jeffs journey with binging (in the past, not anymore)! I think you both are so inspirational with your journeys!
Jeff, what an all star. thanks Stephanie for sharing your freaking incredible journey. pioneer , as Jeff said FOR SURE. love how you talked about just eating whenever... not trying to go on a walk as some suggest or any of the other "tricks" so that one can avoid food lol
Mm I think people don't understand what Jeff said when he said when he love her more now. It's because she is more happy with herself now and she doesn't have to through what she was going through then. Seeing the women he loves more happy, makes him Happy. Also I'm seeing the hate comments towards her and bruh. She did it for her. Not you. For herself. If you think its gross, then just leave. She doesn't need you. If your partner was going through that and you weren't supportive, you shouldnt be dating anyone at moment until you get you head straight. It's all about being healthy for yourself and being happy about it.
ahhh really related to Jeff's experience with being ashamed of eating unhealthy foods in public
I really love how honest you guys are!
Why do women have facial injection? To make their face full, smooth not sunken cheeks. I.e. What is missing? Fat? Muscle? lips shrunk? Face look too long? There are proportions that are more pleasing...differing in different culture. "Only humans struggle with what to eat, how much... when" There are actual mathematical graphics that most faces must match to be considered leading men or women; it was even more so in old Hollywood studio era. Models were perfect 9; not now. Marilyn Monroe was size 12 now a 3? You are now a classic feminine beautiful...It is possible to be too thin or too ripped. That is why you are happy and Jeff loves the new healthier you. The reason men being hyper critical is the POV difference in and women. He describe her as perfect Please don't change however, most women say, I thought he was good boyfriend, husband material...What is material? Change...? The audience in movies, tv and magazine and internet relation is, secretly romantic... While you say to viewers My views, Viewers say no, you are mine. Elizabeth Taylor had to reduce 10lbs for each movie. So, she looked as her public knew she should until she didn't. She disappoint the fan fantasy, the bubble popped. "Whatever happen to Virginia Wolf" Part of the beauty of a women is healthy looking "just right" competition , is not beautiful in a classic sense. It is not that beautiful, classic waste ratio is .7 % Every Greek statute , Miss American and top models. This most attractive, healthiest and happiest. "You can human nature...but will not win for long" Body builders who exceed ration standard look abnormal. It is a photo op, only a snapshot. You exceed the set point the body will reset plus. And punish the offender...
Jeff’s interpretation of men’s criticism IS too charitable. A lot of men see women as objects unfortunately.
Exactly. Can't imagine the backlash when she gets her 1st grey hair. On a positive note Jeff is happier than those angry lonely trolls.
Jeff is the perfect example for how all boyfriends should be. I am so glad you have had this love and support in your life.
It is so wonderful so see you two interact. There is so much love, and maturity #couplegoals😍
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!! You are truly a pioneer for women health&fitness channels, you inspire me, thank you sooooo much for your transparency, love you!! (Btw Jeff is the best, loved this Q&A & particularly the double standard part)
Seriously Jeff is such an angel. Very thankful for men like him.
Jeff has the most amazing smile I've ever seen. I love your relationship, you're both lucky to have each other ❤️
Nyx Nox I really think some peoples bodies just have certain constitutions, meaning some people thrive from being heavier, while other people are just skinny and thats where there bodies are most adept and people need to be more respectful of that. Love yourself; forcing your body to conform to something it cant sustain may not be healthy for you. Healthy and confident is the most attractive. Listen to your body
Jeff is awesome.
"men want to help women"... could also be these men trying to CONTROL women becuase they "know better".
I appreciate that you guys are using such terms as "extreme hunger" and not labelling this lifestyle as an eating disorder. I think it's important to talk about this kind of stuff with out immediately labeling it as a mental illness. It's something that a lot of people go through, especially those who are involved in sports or fitness. Many don't even realize what's happening while they are going through it. It's also super important to explain the reasons behind why the body will binge or what actually goes on "behind the scenes" when people are going through this.
This can also help with anorexic recovery, it helped me :)
What ¡ missed in United States is the personal care, people gets fat and old quickly..,
I dont know why I find so funny that Stephanie is nodding to the camera at 1:55 while Jeff is talking to her
Cracks me up when they use the term "all in" like it's an actual term that's been in the lexicon for years when they just made that shit up... not talking shit really, just find it funny when they say it
jeff's answer to the last question in layman's terms: I like you thicc
wow, this is really a side of working out i didnt know about
It's Idiots like Jeff that I can't stand seeing with Beautiful Angles like Stephanie.
WOw , he even sounds like an idiot when he starts talking.
Babe/Stephanie, you need to dump his ugly ass
Is it, Just me or does anyone else think that Idiot Jeff is not right for her.
He is such a great man!!! They are so sweet
Men don’t like it when women take control back over their bodies. They only like when we’re trying to make ourselves small as possible for them.
Jeff talking about the uncontrollable eating after a show, holy shit I can relate. My “coach” promised to reverse diet me out of my show and I never heard off him again after show day. My hunger for the final 6 weeks of prep was something I’d never experienced before and it was torturous. I’d gained 1.5 stone in just over 2 weeks post show. I ate 1kg of chocolate in the space of 48 hours, and came out in hives from neck to feet from the sugar. Even the secret eating in my bedroom was another thing. I ate like shit for 4 months after the show, and then spent the next 5 months getting my shit together. It’s a long way to climb back out of the rabbit hole and I will NEVER go back there again.
Such a great video to watch, especially on the topic of binge eating. It's nice to hear you guys talk about experience with food in general.
Aw Jeff is just the sweetest! You are so beautiful Stephanie, I am so happy for you BOTH!! ❤️
Everytime I think I have to restrict food or diet, I watch one of your videos
Am i the only person who thinks he looks like Jamie in Outlander?
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wowowowow absolutely loved this video! and awe jeff is so sweet
Wow! Jeff expresses me completely. Eat alone, don’t want people to see me eating, binge eating until the point i cannot eat anymore, feel terrified after binge and extremely mad at myself. But, I don’t bave a brave to take such a big choice as he was getting”all in” . I’m scared to gain weight much more. I feel stressed because i gained weight obviously because of my eating habit. It’s getting worse during quarantine😔
I got in great shape during quarantine. It's all about what you decide for yourself. Everyone should find a way to feel happy with themselves, then it gets easier.
What an insanely beautiful couple. Wow.
What does all in mean?
They make such a beautiful couple❤️
can someone explain what all in means in her situation?
Something to help the other men out there just quickly. Women are smarter than us in most situations, they don't want you to solve their problems cuz they've probably figured out the best way to do that, when they come to you with a problem just listen and be emotionally supportive. If they ask for your opinion on it or ask your help to solve it then that is when you give them your ideas. Also, Stephanie you look fantastic. You still look very fit and very healthy, except now your mental health is hopefully getting a boost as well, I think what you're doing is great and you should keep doing whatever you want to do. As long as you're happy, I'm happy for you cuz you and Jeff seem like awesome people. Bacon fried with paprika and butter, on a sandwich with chilli cheddar is amazing and you should try it.
You look sooo beautiful😍😍
What is "all in"?
Stephanie , you are like a human version of mulan. Thank you for your videos love your confidence and self acceptance!
You have the most supportive boyfriend ❤ He is such a sweet person.
I love y’all
I’m recovering from an ED and I can relate so much to what Jeff was saying about his “all in” where I wasn’t doing it on purpose I just thought I was weak and fat and I was eating like 3k cal a day versus my usual 400. I lasted months like that and felt so guilty but now after 5 months my weight has settled, my hunger has gone down and I realize what was going on. I relate so much to trying to diet but feeling like my body was “overiding” my restriction. I’m not totally better but I have a dietician now and I’m relearning to listen to my hunger cues and create a healthy eating schedule with healthy eating habits. Stephanie, your journey is super inspiring. It’s really appreciate hearing a man talk about his experience with disordered eating as well. I don’t think it’s talked about enough!
He is a keeper! Said all the right things!
Oh my god thank you so much for making this. For almost a month I’ve been struggling with the same exact eating behaviors as Jeff and this lit up what was going on with me. I really needed this because I had no idea what was going on with me. I’ve been having dark thoughts because of what was happening to me. But now that I understand I feel so much better that I’m going through this. Thank you so much
You're such a lovely couple!
Today i had an argument with my boyfriend because if my weight his soo mean to me.....his not even cautious with his choice of words...no matter how hard i try he never acknowledge's and keeps saying i am never consistent and becomes soo mean ......then says i am playing the victim whenever i cry over it ....you should note i am 53kg which is 116lbs....and 5'1 i have like lower belly fat quite a little and love handles but he makes me judge myself soo harshly everyday .....you would think i am the fattest person in the world everytime i confront him about his approach on being honest that he hurts my feelings he says i have to deal with it because he does not sugar coat his honesty ....it just emotionally draining
You are not fat at all! DUMP HIM! He is emotionally and mentally abusing you. You deserve so much better. You will be sad, but you will feel a weight lifted off your shoulders. All that energy he is sucking out of you will return. In the long run you will be much happier without him dragging you down with his abuse. Good luck
My favorite couple ever
does anyone else think she looks like demi after the weight gain
Love this video. You two are so sweet. And really enjoying seeing your progress Stephanie, especially coming from a similar standpoint. So rare to find fitness influencers who are going their own path, and willing to share so honestly. Can't wait to see more
jeff is a gem❤️
You guys are adorable! I love how supportive your relationship is! 😁
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